Keeping our Teens Drug and Alcohol Free

How to Start a Conversation with a Reluctant Child

60 Second Conversation Starter

Edgewood Middle School Teacher Carly Sheppard Edgewood teacher Carly Sheppard encourages parents in this video to talk to their kids about alcohol before it becomes a big event.

For children younger than 12, it’s best to focus conversations around health (exercise, sleep, etc.) and safety (only taking medicine prescribed to them). With children/teens older than 12, parents can have more direct conversations by asking what they know about alcohol and other substances.

To start a conversation with a reluctant child, try asking open-ended questions like the ones below. They might lead to discussions about alcohol or marijuana.

  • What’s the first thing you think about when you wake up in the morning?
  • What do you like most about your closest friends?
  • What was the best part of your day/week?
  • What do you like most about our family?
Source: Operation Parent; ADAPT: Mind the Message campaign

It’s not one 60-minute conversation.
It’s 60 one-minute conversations.